Has anyone ever said something thinking the listener already knows what you're talking about and then, to your horror, they have no idea? Or, maybe you mention a very positive thing to the doer of said thing and they ask how you knew? And you get the idea you weren't suppose to know? Yeah, I've done two of these "oopses" in the past two days. Two for two-goin' for the gold!
Yeah-can't tell you how bad I feel. Sort of not bad but low. Not even embarassed-worse than that. Not good. Guilty might be a better description. The only thing that lessens my guilt is that I didn't mean any harm. What a mess! How to handle this?
Prayer of course. Please don't let me be such an idiot is always a good place to start. Thank you for making silence a virtue-help me to remember that. I also remember all the scripture-well, not all but some-OK a few-about careful words. In James it goes something like this: With the same tongue we praise God and curse men. Little children this should not be so. Somewhere in Proverbs: Pleasant words are like honey to the soul. Proverbs: A slip of the foot one shall soon recover but a slip of the tongue...I'm paraphrasing folks-roll with me on this. Tho I meant no harm, I still hurt people or made them at the least uncomfortable.
Maybe praying for wisdom is the answer here. It worked for Solomon. And forgiveness-always need to pray for that. I'm just glad I have Someone to go to when I need/want to. And, believe me, I am one of God's neediest children. But, He's ok with that. He loves me anyway. Truly, awesome. Truly!